Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them.
-Ephesians 4:29, NLT
This blog is designed a safe place for faithful spouses to come for support and pastoral guidance from a pastor who has “been there.”
I will not approve comments that engage in shaming divorced or divorcing faithful spouses!
My stance on that is clear on this blog.
Since this is my blog, I get to decide whether or not someone has violated this rule or violated the rule of engaging in destructive as opposed to edifying speech for this particular online community.
If you are not seeing your comment posted, do not assume that I have judged it as in violation of my policy. Sometimes my over-jealous spam filter will hide your commennt away until I check the spam folder to rescue your comment.
Also, I sometimes delay approving a comment if I you have posted under your full name as I want to protect the identities of those who come here due to the sensitive nature of the subject matter.
Finally, this blog is a labor of love. I have a full-time job and an active young family. So, please be patient with me if it is taking time for me to approve your comment. I do appreciate–very much–your engagement with the blog.
