Instead of shame and dishonor, you will enjoy a double share of honor. -Isaiah 61:7a, NLT Why would you choose to accept the lie-filled narrative from your cheater as your own narrative? Choose your own victory narrative! Remember: You are not the rejected spouse. RATHER, you are the FAITHFUL SPOUSE! You are not the morally … Continue reading “Choose “The Victorious Narrative!””
Category: Encouragement
Happy Father’s Day to my fellow faithful dads!
Happy Father’s Day!* When everything went to pieces, I was grieving the thought that I might never get to be a dad. Well, that all changed when I married Mrs. DM. Instantly, I became a dad to Munchkin. God restores dreams! Also, I am so grateful for my own dad. He has been a rock … Continue reading “Happy Father’s Day to my fellow faithful dads!”
Feeling fellowship with Christ, the Forsaken
“My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” -Matthew 27:46b, KJV When I was struggling the most, these words from Jesus brought me the greatest comfort. They were reminders to me that God understood the pain and suffering that I was enduring. He could relate. Jesus understands what it meant to suffer unjustly. Jesus understands … Continue reading “Feeling fellowship with Christ, the Forsaken”
And then they are nothing more than a footnote
I want to encourage those who are recent arrivals to this digital shore. It does get better. The sharp, intense emotional pain does lessen over time. Thoughts of your cheater become less and less as you heal. In fact, one day–I don’t know when it will be for you–you will wake up and spend a … Continue reading “And then they are nothing more than a footnote”
Not ashamed of my pets “taking care of” me
“You will drink from the brook, and I have directed the ravens to supply you with food there.” -I Kings 17:4, NIV “Do you need someone to take care of you?!” This accusation was aimed at me to shame. It was aimed to suggest the person hearing it was less than an adult. But it … Continue reading “Not ashamed of my pets “taking care of” me”
Not your fault and not your job!
Public Service Announcement: It was NOT your fault that they cheated on you, and it is not your job to make them faithful! I want to encourage you that they need not buy what others sell regarding infidelity. They might try to make you feel responsible–if only in part–for your cheater’s actions. To take that … Continue reading “Not your fault and not your job!”
God’s kindness through confirmations
36 And Gideon said unto God, “If thou wilt save Israel by mine hand, as thou hast said, 37 Behold, I will put a fleece of wool in the floor; and if the dew be on the fleece only, and it be dry upon all the earth beside, then shall I know that thou wilt save Israel … Continue reading “God’s kindness through confirmations”
God’s got you!
“My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.” -John 10:29, NIV “God’s got you, David.” -Pastor to me. I recieved this timely prophetic word in November last year. It has provided a great deal of comfort to me as I continue … Continue reading “God’s got you!”
Grow your gratitude!
Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? -Matthew 6:26, NKJV The discipline of gratitude is the secret to an abundant life. Of this, I am convinced. Grateful people do not live … Continue reading “Grow your gratitude!”
Fun post about my hobby
Today, I registered for my first powerlifting meet. It is in Iowa this coming July. I never would have believed I’d be doing this if you told me in high school. What I mean by that is lifting the sort of weights I am working on in gear. Those numbers seem mind-blowing from the perspective … Continue reading “Fun post about my hobby”