A voice for righteousness!

“For the lips of a priest should keep knowledge, And people should seek the law from his mouth; For he is the messenger of the Lord of hosts.” -Malachi 2:7, NKJV Seeking help from a pastor in situations of infidelity is different than seeking help from a therapist. This verse from Malachi 2–ironically, before the infamous passage on divorce–highlights … Continue reading “A voice for righteousness!”

Pro-Tip: Do NOT accept allowing the cheater to end it without you.

Lying lips are abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly are his delight. -Proverbs 12:22, KJV Liars lie. And cheaters by the fact that they cheated are liars. A wise person does not just take them at their word. Words need to be verified by action. I do not recommend trusting a cheater … Continue reading “Pro-Tip: Do NOT accept allowing the cheater to end it without you.”

All the emphasis on “owning your part”

I remember attending a popular Christian divorce ministry. This ministry puts a great deal of effort in “preventing” divorces and emphasizes how costly they are. Another aspect of this ministry was how they emphasized owning “your part” of the divorce. I believe this emphasis is a subtle blame shift. The subtle part is the assumption … Continue reading “All the emphasis on “owning your part””