When Cheaters have decided to discard you, there is no reasoning with them. They have already closed their minds. To them, you are this evil person that they are “entitled” to cheat on and discard. Facts to the contrary will not be entertained. They are totally given over to the lies in their hearts. You … Continue reading “No reasoning with them”
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A voice for righteousness!
“For the lips of a priest should keep knowledge, And people should seek the law from his mouth; For he is the messenger of the Lord of hosts.” -Malachi 2:7, NKJV Seeking help from a pastor in situations of infidelity is different than seeking help from a therapist. This verse from Malachi 2–ironically, before the infamous passage on divorce–highlights … Continue reading “A voice for righteousness!”
Blog Pause Today
I was busy at a pastors’ conference today. Hopefully, I will have time tomorrow to return to my regular postings.
Blog Paused Today
I’m going to busy today at the Conference. So, the blog will be paused!
Blog Pause: Traveling today
I’m heading to a pastors conference in California today. So, I may be spotty in my posts in the coming week.
Technical Website Issues Resolved – We think!
The last few days the website with experiencing some difficulties. I apologize for that. One of my “plugins” was misbehaving. Thanks to some expert help, we are back up and running! The links should now populate and work.
Blog Paused
I’m on the road for a spiritual retreat in Kansas City area. Posting will resume by Wednesday at the latest.
Pro-Tip: Do NOT accept allowing the cheater to end it without you.
Lying lips are abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly are his delight. -Proverbs 12:22, KJV Liars lie. And cheaters by the fact that they cheated are liars. A wise person does not just take them at their word. Words need to be verified by action. I do not recommend trusting a cheater … Continue reading “Pro-Tip: Do NOT accept allowing the cheater to end it without you.”
All the emphasis on “owning your part”
I remember attending a popular Christian divorce ministry. This ministry puts a great deal of effort in “preventing” divorces and emphasizes how costly they are. Another aspect of this ministry was how they emphasized owning “your part” of the divorce. I believe this emphasis is a subtle blame shift. The subtle part is the assumption … Continue reading “All the emphasis on “owning your part””
On savoring God’s gifts
The LORD blessed the latter part of Job’s life more than the former part. -Job 42:12a, NIV When you go through a divorce from a cheater, you start to see life differently. You cannot go through that experience and remain unmarked. That said, today’s post is about a positive out of that horrible experience. Personally, I … Continue reading “On savoring God’s gifts”