Then Jesus wept.
-John 11:35, NLT
When looking for a pastor, I would encourage you to consider empathy and compassion as necessary traits. The “answer man” or “answer woman” is not what a hurting heart needs.
Today, I read an excellent article about the importance of this trait in pastors. It was written by Scot McKnight. The article is entitled, “Empathy is a Virtue.”
To be honest, the article brought me to tears as someone who was once shamed for being “too” emotional to be a pastor. It was very affirming.
I totally endorse the ideas he shares in the article.
Do yourself a favor and go read his article (link here).
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*A version of this post ran previously. The article is still a good reminder in the middle of all the church crises of late.
