How might reading my book help a truly repentant cheater?
If they have ears to hear as a truly repentant individual, my book would help them to understand the devastation created by their sin. It would help them see the world through their victim’s eyes.
That said, the book is “strong medicine” for the unfaithful party.
My target audience for the book is faithful spouses and those who want to support them pastorally. I would have likely written differently for the unfaithful spouse audience if I felt they needed to be addressed directly.
Because the word is very much tough love for cheaters, they might dismiss the book as from a “bitter” person or devolve into a personal pity-party despairing about their own worth–e.g. “I guess I’m just a worthless slut” type of thinking– and thereby release themselves of the hard tasks of repentance.
So, the ultimate answer to the original question is a judgment call:
Some cheaters might be ready to hear a tough love message. Others never will be. This book is certainly NOT for the later group of unfaithful spouses.
____________
Appreciate the messages shared here? Check out my book:
