Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. – I John 3:18, NIV Who has loved you “with actions and in truth?” What did they do? AG lent me his car when mine was broken down, and I needed to get to work. He also sat with … Continue reading “With Actions And Truth”
Author: Divorce Minister
“Can’t I have friends?!”`
“Can’t I have friends?!” says the cheater with exasperation. This is what is known in philosophy as the “Loaded Question Fallacy.” It is an error in reasoning where you cannot answer such questions without ending up in a bad place. Such is like the classical “Loaded Question” example of “When will you stop beating your … Continue reading ““Can’t I have friends?!”`”
My God Is Passionate!
In my distress I called upon the Lord; to my God I cried for help. From his temple he heard my voice, and my cry to him reached his ears. Then the earth reeled and rocked; the foundations also of the mountains trembled and quaked, because he was angry. -Psalm 18:6-7, ESV I write this … Continue reading “My God Is Passionate!”
God Hates Adultery More Than He Hates Divorce!
“I have seen your abominations, your adulteries and neighings, your lewd whorings, on the hills in the field. Woe to you, O Jerusalem! How long will it be before you are made clean?” -Jeremiah 13:27, ESV God Hates Adultery More Than He Hates Divorce. This is my response to Christian counselors and pastors who trot … Continue reading “God Hates Adultery More Than He Hates Divorce!”
6 Months Over 45,000 Views From Visitors In Over 100 Countries!
Happy Blog Half-Birthday (+ two days)! In a little over six months, this blog has come a long ways. I had initially started it to see if anyone might be interested in my thoughts on the matters of adultery and divorce. The answer to that question has been a resounding “Yes!” I share these numbers about … Continue reading “6 Months Over 45,000 Views From Visitors In Over 100 Countries!”
You are NOT a disappointment to God!
You are not a disappointment to God! You did not let God down! You are a faithful spouse and a dear child of God. Maybe I am the only faithful spouse to ever have struggled with this one. I doubt it. But I don’t know. When the pain of the divorce was acute, I felt … Continue reading “You are NOT a disappointment to God!”
Worst Piece of Advice Given
“Contend with your mother, contend, For she is not my wife, and I am not her husband; And let her put away her harlotry from her face And her adultery from between her breasts…“ -Hosea 2:2, NASB While I do not mind the end result–the merciful divorce paving the way to my marriage to Mrs. DM–I am … Continue reading “Worst Piece of Advice Given”
We Don’t Fight Over Traitors
You, Lord God Almighty, you who are the God of Israel, rouse yourself to punish all the nations; show no mercy to wicked traitors. -Psalm 59:5, NIV The most intimate of human trust is violated when a spouse chooses to commit adultery. When two Christians enter a marriage, they publicly confess to forsake all others … Continue reading “We Don’t Fight Over Traitors”
Brokenness Sin Origin False Narrative
So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate. She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate. – Genesis 3:6, NKJV “Can’t you see he only did … Continue reading “Brokenness Sin Origin False Narrative”
My Thoughts On OW Pastoral Exchange On RELEVANT Magazine Online
A few months back, an article appeared in a cutting-edge, evangelical Christian magazine. This article was inspired by a write-in request from a woman, Laurie, who was both the divorced faithful spouse and later the other woman in an adulterous relationship with a married man. She was writing into the magazine for advice how to … Continue reading “My Thoughts On OW Pastoral Exchange On RELEVANT Magazine Online”