When going through a divorce, I would recommend getting a good divorce lawyer for the process.
Think of it as an investment in your future. You do not want to be surprised after the fact with issues that you cannot fixed once divorced.
I understand that divorce lawyers make more money as it gets more adversarial.
Yet, remember, the situation is already adversarial when you are divorcing a cheater. The only question is whether or not you are going to defend your rights or allow the cheater to continue to trample them.
Your lawyer is there to protect your rights and interests. This is when cheaters learn the hard way that they do not get to set the rules as to what is “fair.”