While I’ve been blogging for nearly a decade on this topic, I still keep this part of my ministry less public personally.

Most people who meet me will never know I do this ministry. That said, my Facebook “friends” know as I share it there. It is one reason why I think twice about adding people there. I suspect the postings might be shocking for new friends.

This is such a delicate topic, and I know I do not espouse the usual evangelical dogma on the matter!

Most people would assume a pastor would advocate for staying in marriages, even those ravaged by the sins of an unrepentant cheater. I am NOT that sort of a pastor, though.

This blog has a simple tagline:

Taking adultery seriously!

For too long, the Church has treated divorce as worse than the sin of adultery. This is sick and backwards. It is ungodly. Plus, it enables abuse, in my opinion.

I am not ashamed about the good work I do here. However, I do try to “read the room” before dealing with the inevitable fall out that comes in Christian circles when a “holy cow” is sacrificed.