“There are no ‘accidental muffins.'”

I made this statement the other night about affairs. It was in reference to a video on the internet about cheating. The original poster pointed out all the steps needed to cheat and likened it to baking something.

A cheater might try to pass their affair off as an accident. They might try to convince you that they never intended to hurt you. It was just a “mistake.”

The fact is cheating takes planning and multiple steps to make it happen and keep it hidden. An affair end product does not just spontaneously come to be any more than a dozen muffins do!

A cheater deliberately CHOSE to be around someone they deemed attractive. They then proceeded to flirt and cultivate the forbidden romantic connection. Then they found a space where they could CHOOSE to take off their clothes. Finally, they CHOSE to have sex with someone who was NOT their spouse. The “muffin” didn’t “just happen.”

There are no “accidental muffins.”