Public Service Notice:
As long as the cheater is still cheating, you do not have a marriage to save.
You cannot fix this situation on your own. No matter how much you want to stay married. That is all you will do. You will stay attached to your abuser.
What you won’t have is a godly marriage.
The only person that can change this equation is the cheater. They are the ones who can stop this behavior and prove it is truly over.
Yet, most cheaters will not do this hard, humbling work. They prefer their sin to humility.
It is waste of time staying with these sort of people. All you are doing is leaving yourself open to further abuse, in my opinion.
God gives us the option of divorce in these situations where we are married to someone who has so destroyed the marriage by their adulterous sins (see Mt 19:9).
