When dealing with a cheater who has lived a double life for months (or years), you likely only know a small part of the deception and infidelity.

They have been at this deception for a while. What you know now is a fractured partial of the story, and they have demonstrated an unwillingness to clue you into the rest by the great efforts they’ve taken to keep you in the dark for months (if not years)!

Sometimes, I believe, God spares us the pain of learning all the cheating details. He just releases us from the marriage to a cheater who has become incapable of honesty with us.

That is a great mercy.

All we need to know is that we have hit the “Cheating Iceberg,” and the marriage ship is going down with an irreparable hole in its hull.

You don’t need to know the exact dimensions of that “Cheating Iceberg” to know it is time to “Abandon Ship!”

 

*A version of this post ran previously.