Not knowing when the cheating started happening, sucks!!!
Maybe you know a general time frame? However, Cheaters are generally silent when it comes to giving you the details you so desire to regain a sense of clarity about what was happening over the months or years.
It sucks.
This is another loss among many when dealing with unfaithful spouses. You have loss touch with reality in the sense that you lack critical information to know what was REALLY happening during your relationship.
Did they always have this second, secret life? Was he cheating on EVERY “work” trip? Were those really nights out “just” with the girls?
At some point, you have to accept that you will likely never know the full extent of the treachery and deceit. It is not worth the abuse you’ll likely get trying to pry the truth from a lying Cheater.
