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You are not a disappointment to God! You did not let God down! You are a faithful spouse and a dear child of God. Maybe I am the only faithful spouse to ever have struggled with this one. I doubt it. But I don’t know. When the pain of the divorce was acute, I felt … Continue reading “You are NOT a disappointment to God!”

Dear Readers, As an act of faith, I am planning on pitching an article on caring for adultery survivors to an online Christian magazine soon. The idea is to bring more exposure to the blog, and this online publication is to an edgy evangelical online magazine with many readers. If they pick it up, I … Continue reading “Prayers Appreciated!”

Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. – I Corinthians 6:9-10, NIV (emphasis … Continue reading “Adultery Is Damnable Sin”

Fools mock at making amends for sin,     but goodwill is found among the upright. – Proverbs 14:9, NIV When someone intentionally boils water and scalds another with it, I find it heartless to then blame the burn victim for crying out in pain when they are touched lightly on his/her burns. Such is how I … Continue reading “Not Too Sensitive, Just Burned”

But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. – Ephesians 5:3, NIV (emphasis mine) “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks … Continue reading “Is it really “just” an emotional affair?”

28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV) Healing after some sort of … Continue reading “Peace and Rest”

“And then there’s another kind of love. The cruelest kind. One that almost kills it’s victims. It’s called “unrequited love.”   I had never heard of the term “unrequited love” until I first saw The Holiday when it was released in 2006. I was watching tonight and the intro caught my attention in a new … Continue reading “Unrequited Love”

I am working on getting the page set up in a bilingual fashion. Bear with me while I try and figure out the proper set up for the plugins and widgets. If it’s working, it should load the page in whatever language is the preferred language for your browser (if it’s not English or Spanish it … Continue reading “From the Mrs: Bear with me”

God is love. – I John 4:16b, NIV I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries. Yet I saw that her unfaithful sister Judah had no fear; she also went out and committed adultery. – Jeremiah 3:8, NIV Can Choosing Divorce Ever Be the Most Loving … Continue reading “Choosing Divorce As Act Of Love”

I know there are some wondering “what about the adulterous spouse? Where’s the grace for them?” I want to make it clear that there is grace and redemption for them too. There is grace and redemption available to all. From all the personal stories I’ve heard/read, and from my own experience with infidelity, here’s a … Continue reading “House of Cards”