God sees the injustice!

9 The Lord is a shelter for the oppressed,
    a refuge in times of trouble.
10 Those who know your name trust in you,
    for you, O Lord, do not abandon those who search for you.

-Psalm 9:9-10, NLT

Part of the struggle following infidelity discovery is how the injustice sometimes feels unseen or devalued by outsiders.

Faithful spouses are pressured to “forgive” with little to zero acknowledgement of the real and gross injustices they experienced.

In fact, faithful spouses are often labelled “bitter” or threatened with the label of being “unforgiving” when they are really just pleading for someone to acknowledge the injustice of it all!

God sees.

God recognizes the injustices.

And God does not abandon those who seek Him.

The Psalms invite us to pour out our hearts to Him. They encourage us to tell God about the oppression and injustice we feel. The Psalms exhort us to give God our “case.”

God can handle it.

And you can be sure God does not minimize the wrongness of adultery and all the other harmful sins that go with it.

7 thoughts on “God sees the injustice!”

  1. I don’t wish harm on my cheater wfie or her affair partner. I just want relief from the pain.

  2. Eric, Take care of yourself while you wait for that day to come. That day will come!

  3. I just really need to know this. Is it possible for someone to hack into my private fb settings without my device and put their phone number? I found a number of a woman I used to go to church with under my private fb settings. My husband is the only one who had access to my device. I did not even have her number. Thanks in advance.

      1. Thanks. I tried to google or find a number I could call but no answer. It was honestly so bizarre. I did call her a couple of days later after finding her number and calling and getting her voice mail first.Thats how I found out it was her.

        I took his phone that night and checked to see if anything was on it about her. She doesn’t even appear to have a fb. ( unless she has a fake one which is possible). I deleted all of my history of checking. Checked twice to make sure history was deleted.

        Told my husband much later that night what I found. He said nothing. Got up in the morning and he was outside so I picked up his phone on kitchen counter to check weather.

        Her name was coming across the bottom of his phone- like in typed blue letters. I stared at it for a minute. I knew I was seeing it. I swiped the screen to check texts and it disappeared. There was no text.

        He came in and I told him. He had no idea. So we ran our errands all morning. I didn’t touch his phone again.

        At 2 p.m. we got a text from our daughter that she made it to work. We were in a business ordering something so I answered her text and then went to Safari on his phone.

        The only thing on safari was the gmail page. Not with a gmail address. Just the page. Like it hadn’t been deleted possibly?

        I said nothing but was thinking….. Could he have emailed her this morning and she answered him back?

        He and I share an email for real estate stuff and he says he has no individual one. I asked him later in the day if he had emailed realtors lately and he said no!

        So why when I know for sure that I deleted all history of her the night before does her name come up on the bottom of his phone in neat blue typed letters?
        It’s an apple phone and I have one too and looked up all kinds of stuff and have Never seen that happen before.

        I did call her two days later. Of course she had no idea! What crap!! I didn’t stay on long as she started griping about her son. Uggg…

        I honestly wondered if he had emailed her to tell her and she emailed him back? I have never seen a name come up like that before! And…. why the gmail page under his safari?

        What do you think?

        1. When I was driving myself crazy wondering what my ex-husband was up to while married, I installed a keylogger program on his computer. I could check it on my computer in a different room and see what he was typing on Instant Messenger, what passwords he was entering into his email accounts. It basically gave me tons of evidence of his affair. I understand it may also be possible to find cell phone apps, devices for cars, etc. I know my boss installed some sort of GPS app on his teenage kids’ cell phones. Just know if you try the spying method, you may find something that hurts.

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