To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven….
-Ecclesiastes 3:1, KJV
So, you decided to divorce your cheater. However, you are still married.
Please do not date during this limbo period.
You will have plenty of time to do this after the divorce is finalized. This is a good time to invest in yourself. Adding a third party can lead to further heartache during an already difficult time.
Plus, the honorable thing is to see your marriage vows through to the actual end of the marriage.
We all get to make our choices. This is my advice as a pastor, and someone who went through a divorce. I could have dated while my divorce was being finalized… but I didn’t.
Also, I did not date people afterwards who were still “technically” married.
Plenty of cheaters talk about their marriages being “over” or being “separated” as a pickup line for their affair partners. Don’t join that club, please!
Excellent advice !
I disagree the you “could have” dated while your divorce was being finalized, unless you want to be in the same category as the unfaithful spouse. Marriage isn’t legally over until papers are signed. Afterwards it is wise to wait months or even years before “courting” which is dating with the intent to discern if the two people can be married.
“Could have” as in able… but I agree it would not have been morally right.