And above all things have fervent love for one another, for “love will cover a multitude of sins.”

-I Peter 4:8, NKJV

Cheaters are “good” at putting together a list of things that they do not like about their spouse.

They are doing this to “justify” their infidelity and their abandonment of the marriage. The thought is such a list meant that they were allowed to go outside of marriage for their “unmet needs.”

The reality is faithful spouses could make such a list, too.

Faithful spouses generally do not make such a list because they are committed to the marriage. This manifests as people who are not fault-finding sort of people.

That does not mean cheaters, prior to the affair, were fault-free, though.

We could make our own list. However, we are generally more gracious than the cheaters we married. It is not because they were perfect angels prior cheating that we did not make a list, too.